Love and Duty

“Disputes over the meaning of conflicts continue long after the shooting stops. The Civil War ended some 157 years ago, but Americans still argue about how to remember it. Was Lee, for example, a noble Virginian or a heartless whipper of captive humans—and should his statue stand in our cities? [Love and Duty] grapple[s] with such questions by examining the rich subject of American funerals in the 19th century.”—Thomas E. Ricks, New York Times Book Review

“This monograph is a good update to numerous other studies of how elite white southern women experienced the war and its aftermath.”–Journal of Southern History

"Drawing on an impressive array of personal manuscripts and scrapbooks, Love & Duty extends recent scholarship on the diversity among women’s experiences during the Civil War and its long aftermath.”—Brian Matthew Jordan, Civil War Monitor

“Love and Duty is a social history that broadens our understanding of the Civil War and its impact on the long nineteenth century and its ongoing reverberations. It is an outstanding example of emotionology—or the history of emotional change over time—and uncovers the hidden ways private grief can have long-term public consequences.”—Journal of American History

“Angela Elder’s important book adds to the growing history of emotions during the Civil War . . .Love and Duty is a very readable book, deplete of jargon, and filled with fascinating stories of Confederate widows.”—Civil War Book Review

“Elder has offered a valuable way to recalibrate how we consider the war’s scale. . . . Love and Duty joins a growing list of titles that explore the emotional lives of the war’s participants and its observers.”—American Historical Review

“Love and Duty, which offers readers a thoughtful exploration of widowhood in the post bellum period, is well-written and a delight to read, and makes a significant contribution to the study of the Civil War and its aftermath. This reviewer recommends [it] . . . for anyone with an interest in the era of the Civil War.”—NYMAS Review

“A detailed study of Confederate widows . . . examines how these women behaved with their husbands and how they survived without them.”—Taylor Hill, H-Net Reviews

“A well-researched and evocative cultural history.”—H-CivWar

“Elder has written a smart cultural history that sympathetically recovers the lives of widows and systematically documents the Civil War’s destruction and its aftermath. The book is both a delight to read and a significant contribution.”—James J. Broomall, Shepherd University